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It Never Stops

September 30, 2024 By Maryann Curran 1 Comment

I wrote this in the days following the Paris attack in October. I hope you can read the tragedy between the lines.

it_never_stopsIn 1994, my husband John and I went to Europe and visited five countries.  Traveling with dear friends, we shared many of our observations, shared wonderful food and walked miles of cobblestone streets.  We found not only enchantment in these places, but also much educational history about the thousands of years endured before our visit.

On our last day in Munich, we visited the nearby concentration camp DACHAU outside of the city limits. Of course, we experienced the usual sadness and horror seeing the buildings, learning about horrific activities there and walking through the museum of artifacts and pictures of thousands of victims.  Many of the visual accounts still stand before me.

Late that evening, we boarded an overnight train to Innsbruck, Austria.  Stopping at almost every town, increasing speed to an unimaginable tempo and using the austere bathroom down the hall, our night journey seemed unending.  But as always, daybreak did arrive as we pulled into the Innsbruck train station. I was very relieved to stand still!

As we walked down the long, concrete walkway and out onto the busy street, we heard shouts and cannon fire.  Alarmed but curious, we rounded the station corner to witness hundreds of young, blond, blue eyed school students dressed in Nazi uniform attire.  If I could, I would have fallen to my knees in horror.  As tears welled in my eyes, I said “NO” loudly to my husband.  He, of course, looked at me in wonder.

What I was saying, was, “NO! Never again can we have this barbarous mind set in our world.“ Always starting with the young people, evil can pass through a crowd like a disease and engulf a generation like it did in the 30s and 40s with Hitler.  As the young men passed by in typical goosestep fashion, I wanted to throw my arms around each one of them and reel them into our group.  I wanted to protect them — but mostly us — from the threat of yet another monster dictatorship.  Yet, this was impossible!

Now that was 21 years ago and here we are in 2015!  Aren’t we enduring a similar situation in our modern world today?  I use the word “modern” carefully. Have we made any progress at all? Aren’t we still killing innocent people, forcing others from their countries and starving body, mind and soul though torture?  Think about it!

The tragedy of all this violence is this — it robs people of their future!  It removes dignity, it tries to kill the souls of its victims.  What is the answer?  I wish our leaders would find out and act on it.  Unfortunately, fire must fight fire in these situations.  Killing the monsters is the end goal but a lot of us innocents will suffer first.  I pray fervently to God to interdict His wisdom.  After all, He took down the walls of Jericho!

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  1. Dorothy Bree says

    October 5, 2024 at 5:28 am

    My dear friend in Christ, MaryAnn. Your story resonates throughout this land and is well received by our Heavenly angels. Yes, we are at war with the demonic spirits that seem to exist everywhere. But to all your readers I want to encourage you to BE STILL AND KNOW THAT I AM GOD who hears the cries of my people. I will deliver my children from the wickedness because it is written that I HAVE ALREADY WON the battle.

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“I’ve read 38 letters…I am taking my time and reading few each night enjoying each letter. I always find something that I can relate to in losing my parents and even my cat, KitKat.  Yesterday was 11 months since Dad had died and I found myself getting out of bed last night and going into his room to talk to him. I love the story of JT and Kelly walking in your footprints…how wonderful. Thank you again for your beautiful gift.”
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"What makes FROM WE TO ME different than other books on grief is the openness of the author and her honesty with her feelings. Not kid gloves but boxing gloves are a good way to illustrate how she treats the elements of her loss e.g. anger, fear and regret. She is honest and that is what most of us need when a loss inflicts pain on our “perfect” worlds. Thank you Maryann.”
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Thank you to all my followers and greetings to my new ones. Many of you were introduced to my work after reading my first book, FROM WE TO ME…letters to my friend. This was published in the fall of 2013 and has enjoyed some success. Many of those who have read the book have written encouraging comments, saying it was helpful to those who are experiencing grief.

And now…. I’m introducing my second book, From Me to We. Lots of people have asked me why I wrote it, and it’s because I wanted to share my years after the first year, detailed in From We to Me, with readers. I always emphasize that my experiences are just that… mine… and hopefully they will open people’s eyes inviting them to have similar ones. I keep my sense of humor throughout the book but also emphasize how difficult a lot of days were without my husband. Written in three parts, Section One, is how I grew up,  after the death of my husband, Section Two, the beginning of my socializing again, Section Three… taking a chance, falling in love and marrying again.  The stories are candid and the information honest and straightforward.  I’m hoping the book will help lots of people.

I continue to write my Overcoming Grief Blog and have written many stories on my Facebook page. Reading your responses has touched me deeply and given me a nudge to keep on writing. I invite you to spend some time exploring the resources and ideas within my website:

– If you’re looking for a gift for someone who has recently lost their spouse, my first book From We to Me is an ideal way to offer comfort.

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– If you enjoy sharing tidbits about your childhood with your grandchildren, you may enjoy some of my memoirs posted in Letters to my Granddaughter. I know a lot of you will relate to these letters, and I invite you to write your own.

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This is a journey of courage; one that we will all travel someday.

"I have known Mary for almost 25 years and have read many of her manuscripts. From We to Me is...

~ Dr. Lynn Deegan, Psy. D.

Maryann Hartzell-Curran
2019-05-01T11:46:04-04:00

~ Dr. Lynn Deegan, Psy. D.

"I have known Mary for almost 25 years and have read many of her manuscripts. From We to Me is by far the most beautiful of her works. She painstakingly shares her memories of the first 365 days of her life as a widow, including moving events most of us would be too embarrassed to reveal.  I recommend this to not only those who have lost a loved one, but to anyone who is afraid to feel.  This is a journey of courage; one that we will all travel someday.”
https://maryanncurran.com/testimonials/1249/

Thank you again for your beautiful gift.

“I’ve read 38 letters…I am taking my time and reading few each night enjoying each letter. I always find something...

~ Nanette

Maryann Hartzell-Curran
2019-05-01T11:46:35-04:00

~ Nanette

“I’ve read 38 letters…I am taking my time and reading few each night enjoying each letter. I always find something that I can relate to in losing my parents and even my cat, KitKat.  Yesterday was 11 months since Dad had died and I found myself getting out of bed last night and going into his room to talk to him. I love the story of JT and Kelly walking in your footprints…how wonderful. Thank you again for your beautiful gift.”
https://maryanncurran.com/testimonials/1250/

She is honest and that is what most of us need…

"What makes FROM WE TO ME different than other books on grief is the openness of the author and her...

~ Neal

Maryann Hartzell-Curran
2019-05-01T11:47:04-04:00

~ Neal

"What makes FROM WE TO ME different than other books on grief is the openness of the author and her honesty with her feelings. Not kid gloves but boxing gloves are a good way to illustrate how she treats the elements of her loss e.g. anger, fear and regret. She is honest and that is what most of us need when a loss inflicts pain on our “perfect” worlds. Thank you Maryann.”
https://maryanncurran.com/testimonials/1251/

Her words spoke to me, reassuring me…

“I loved Maryann’s first book for many reasons -- the main one that when I read it, my husband of...

~ Patricia B.

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2019-05-01T11:48:26-04:00

~ Patricia B.

“I loved Maryann’s first book for many reasons -- the main one that when I read it, my husband of 55 years had just died. Her words spoke to me reassuring me that my feelings were a lot like hers and my day to day walk alone was comforted by God’s love. I can’t wait to read the new book because I have started dating and have lots of questions. I know she will cover that in her new book, FROM ME TO WE.”
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